Consequences

A few days ago I had a phone call from a long-time friend, wanting some advice about a life that she had assumed correctly lived. However, often her life did not go as she planned and thought she was a…
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Sex, Money and Rocky Roads

The vast majority of relationship, of all types, hit rocky roads at some point, or often! Some cause arguments and conflict, others destroy the relationship completely. Research shows the two key drivers that push our interaction onto the rocks are…
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When Your Partner is Acting Strangely

The behaviour of partners or friends can seem a real challenge at times. Mood swings, unpredictable moods, bouts of sudden unexplained anger and what seems to be totally irrational behaviour. These things are the common triggers of arguments and even…
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Are relationships really all that important?

Are relationships really all that important?   Can we live satisfying and flourishing lives without good relationships? Do we really need to spend such a massive amount of time, energy and money to create the emotional connections we all seem…
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The Boundaries of Self

Self Image and Self Limitations How we communicate with others, the content and quantity of our conversations are mostly driven by our belief and Values systems, especially those driven by the way we see ourselves – our self-image. Self-image has…
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Expectation

Expectations in Relationships We all expect different things from our interaction with others. What we expect is based on the belief and Values system we have taken on, based on the relationships we saw those in authority engaging in when…
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People Engagement in Organisations

Engagement in an organisation is an unconscious process. Certainly one can try to rationalize and educate the requirement for an enterprise or outcome, but if an individual’s unconscious programs and values system are at odds with the rationalization, the unconscious…
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How Others See You

How others see you mostly comes from unconscious observation. This drives how they interact with you. While you are busy with your thoughts and actions at this very moment, your unconscious mind is taking in a thousand times more information…
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Your Children at Risk?

In today’s world of fast pace and degrading priorities your children are at risk Trying to educate young people and cater for widely varying capabilities, learning style and content is always a challenge   In the education of a child,…
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How do you talk to your children?

Everything you do is driven by unconscious programs that you take on board during your first five years. This includes: What is safe or not safe – who to trust What is fun and what makes us sad How to…
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